Wedding Officiant in Carinthia:Freie Rednerin Sandra

What does your role as our wedding officiant entail?

In the lead-up to the ceremony, we’ll have two to three preliminary meetings in the Klagenfurt area and its surroundings (or, upon request, anywhere in Carinthia—I’m happy to meet you where you are) or via Skype. We’ll have an in-depth consultation about the options for shaping your ceremony, such as the order of events, speeches, symbolic acts, or personal rituals. If you have any questions, I’m always here for you. I’m also always available for your loved ones. Authenticity is what matters most during the ceremony: You and I—we want to be genuine—exactly as we are! Let my words and your love make your hearts beat a little faster. You and I—we’ll show your guests what makes you special as a couple. Your ceremony will be planned exactly as you’d like it to be. I’ll lead the ceremony from the moment you enter until you leave. A respectful, dignified speech tailored to you that touches the hearts of both you and your guests. A relaxed and joyful celebration for you is very important to me; you should truly enjoy your day and feel completely at ease. I’ll always be by your side—wherever and however you’d like. I have a high-quality sound system with column speakers (with Bluetooth) and a microphone—feel free to use them if you’d like to incorporate speeches or play music during the ceremony.

How do you manage to create a non-religious wedding ceremony that's tailored just for us?

I’m a bit like the “Christ Child,” because I bring you “gifts of words” and wrap them in such a personalized way that you’ll know right away that this gift—this one gift—is meant just for you and no one else. Because you are unique, one-of-a-kind, and share a story that can’t be the same as anyone else’s.

Are you taking over for the wedding planner, too?

No, I don’t replace a wedding planner—in the sense that I’ll take care of all the arrangements for you. But I’m happy to share tips and ideas with you about what you’ll need, how you can bring your vision to life, what rituals we can incorporate, and what options are available. Creativity is in my blood, since I’m also an early childhood educator in my second job. In that line of work, creativity, spontaneity, and a solution-oriented approach are simply essential. Nothing fazes me easily.

Are you nervous before the wedding, too?

I wouldn't say nervous, but focused. I find that full concentration and that brief moment of "looking inward" to be absolutely essential. Because it shows you just how important you and your wedding are to me.

What are the key characteristics of a non-religious wedding ceremony?

First, freedom! It’s important that you enjoy it (you’re two individuals, not just a couple)—it should work for both of you. Nothing is a must—everything is possible! Second, balance: it should be humorous but not silly, dignified but not stiff. Third, your guests: Your guests are important to me, and I’m happy to include them. Fourth, openness to all religions and viewpoints is also extremely important. And fifth, I pay close attention to your expectations: What are you hoping for? How do you want to feel? Words fade, but the memory of the feeling you experienced in that moment—that remains. I’m happy to support you with my expertise and advice. Sixth, a non-denominational wedding ceremony has no religious basis and isn’t legally binding under civil law. It’s an alternative to a church wedding and a complement to a civil ceremony. Seventh, a non-denominational wedding ceremony can take place anywhere and at any time of day, making it a unique, deeply personal ceremony.