Herzenssprache
Tanja from Herzenssprache is a true wordsmith. As a freelance speaker, she creates personal and emotional ceremonies and retells your story based on your own accounts in a way that is both captivating and deeply empathetic. She finds words that feel like a warm, familiar embrace.
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Tanja Karssemeijer finds joy in giving voice to your feelings. With her, you’re choosing a wedding officiant who puts your love story front and center and turns your wedding ceremony into an unforgettable event. Tanja takes plenty of time to get to know you personally. After an in-depth conversation, she writes down the many details and stories of your shared history and weaves them into a fairy tale—without any clichés or platitudes. Instead, she finds words that feel like warm, familiar embraces to you.
A non-denominational wedding ceremony crafted by Herzenssprache will have you spellbound as you listen—and laughing heartily at times. Tanja also aims to create a very special feeling with her wedding speech; she wants you to feel as if you’re floating ten centimeters above the ground. This experienced speaker knows how to balance joy and emotion, so that you and your wedding guests might even shed a tear or two of happiness.
With Tanja by your side, your wedding will be more than just a celebration—it will be a story told in the right words, one that stirs memories and emotions. This empathetic wedding speaker looks forward to helping you shape this special day and capturing your love in unforgettable words.
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What is a non-religious wedding ceremony?
A non-religious wedding ceremony allows you to have a ceremony tailored to your wishes and dreams. As a couple in love, you are the focus of the ceremony, because it’s about your life together. There are no rules, conventions, or set rituals based on religion, background, or gender. As the wedding couple, you are free to decide how you want to shape your wedding ceremony.
How long does a non-religious wedding ceremony last?
As long as you’d like. Generally speaking, though, the duration depends on how we structure your ceremony. How many songs would you like? Should we include any rituals? Would your witnesses, friends, or family members like to say a few words? All of these factors determine the length. As a general guideline, though, I’d say about 40–50 minutes.
Does a non-religious wedding ceremony replace the civil ceremony?
No, a non-legal wedding ceremony has no legal validity. For the marriage to be legally valid, it must be registered at the civil registry office.
How many weddings do you take on per day?
Since I want to give each couple my full attention, I only accept one wedding ceremony per day. This allows me to be flexible with my schedule, and I’m happy to accommodate your wishes.
How long do the preparatory meetings with you take?
I conduct a detailed preparatory meeting with my couples. This usually lasts about four hours. Afterward, I prepare a questionnaire for my couples, which they should complete separately. I use this information to plan your ceremony.
What rituals are appropriate for a wedding ceremony?
We'll figure that out during our planning meeting. There are countless wedding rituals—from traditional to completely personalized. The important thing is that the rituals you choose are right for you.
How many songs should we prepare?
As many as you’d like. Most couples, however, choose three songs: the processional, the “I do” and ring exchange, and the recessional. Of course, it’s entirely up to you which songs you choose. Is there perhaps a song that was playing on the radio when you first met? Did you share your first kiss at a concert by your favorite singer, or is there a particular song you always have to sing along to at the top of your lungs? It’s best to choose songs that mean something to you.
Are witnesses allowed at a non-religious wedding ceremony?
Of course! There are no restrictions here. Groomsmen and bridesmaids are also welcome. If you’d rather say “I do” without witnesses, that’s certainly possible as well.
What happens if you're unable to attend on the day of the wedding? (e.g., illness)
Fortunately, that has never happened, but if it does, I’ll try to find a replacement in time. Thanks to my training as a public speaker, I have excellent connections with outstanding colleagues and thus have a large network. Further details are outlined in my Terms and Conditions.
Is it possible to receive the ceremony program after the wedding ceremony?
Yes, because it’s YOUR love story that we’re honoring and celebrating. After the wedding, I provide my couples with a written transcript of the ceremony. This way, you can revisit your wedding ceremony whenever you have a quiet moment—or even on your first wedding anniversary.
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